BlogchatterA2Z: Question Yourself

Asking questions shows curiosity. I bet many of you hesitate to do. It is due to the thought of what others will think of you. How stupid you are! You assume things and end up with half-knowledge.

This chapter is "Question Yourself."

Whenever you have a doubt, ask yourself first. If you want an answer, go ahead without any shyness. You will learn something new. If you do not take the initiative to ask, you will never come to know the answer.  

What should you ask yourself?

You would think if you had the answers to your doubts, there is no point in question. But, dear friend, the problem is in this thought. When you face a difficulty, you panic. At that moment, you should ask yourself first thing to stay calm. 

Once you feel comfortable in the situation, you should start asking the following questions yourself:

• Can I achieve it?
• Is the problem harsh, or am I making it so?
• Why did I start over?
• Should I continue on my own or seek help?

There could be more possible questions that you can ask yourself. Once you prepare answers, you will identify the next steps. In this way, your roadblock will mitigate, and you can proceed.

Why should you ask yourself?

It is crucial to know the reason to ask yourself. You are the person responsible for your happiness and despair. So, when you have to decide something, you should choose yourself. 

If you ask yourself, you will get the best answers, including taking help from someone or identifying the solution to your problem by analysis. I insist on taking your permission for your choices. 

Let me take an example. You go shopping alone and find it difficult to choose between two shirts. You fix to seek help from the shopkeeper to pick for you. Does that choice always make you happy? I hope not. But if you decide for yourself, you will feel satisfied.   

It is one example. You can find other instances you might already have come across in life.

To conclude "Question Yourself":

To lead a happy life, question yourself first. It will filter out your doubts and reduce them. Also, you will learn to solve your problems at your level instead of running to people for every minor issue. Make it a habit to ask questions to yourself. Eventually, you will get the confidence to raise queries in public.

Nurture yourself to strengthen your knowledge.

This post is part of #BlogchatterA2Z challenge’ and Blogchatter